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13 Oct 2008 Philosophical Musings
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Each Sunday night, I “mentor” a group of college students from a local college as part of a campus ministry program which works to instill good spiritual habits in college-age kids. We meet as a large group after evening Mass, then split into small groups, each headed by a mentor. I am one such mentor, and have 5 men in my group.

The conversations are often difficult to get started - my students have much on their minds (midterms, sports, hormones, hormones, hormones). So, last night, rather than trying the “let’s all talk about whatever) approach (which generates interesting conversations about how this professor is vs. this other one), I elected to ask a direct question - namely, “How do we analyze any act as to whether it is bad or good?” (I like to begin with light questions.)

This question shook a couple of the five out of their torpor, and one gave the interesting response, “It depends on what happens,”  to which the others generally agreed and sank back into lethargy. I asked him to clairify, in that he meant whether an action was good or bad depended on the outcome after the action, to which he assented.

I found this quick response curious. After a moment, I then asked him whether he thought there were any actions that might be wrong independent of the outcome? He responded equally quickly, “Sin” (as a good Catholic ought). I mentioned that “sin” was a rather broad category. But, then asked if it would be wrong for me to throw a mustard bottle at him, even though I missed entirely, and he was not injured. He thought that it might indeed be wrong. We did not get a chance to proceed farther, as there was a reflection talk coming up, and we stopped with those thoughts. However, I do not expect that many of the other students will feel too differently than this one.

Philosopher John Haldane said in essence that we live in an age of hedonistic consequentialism, or something like it in the utilitarian mode. In essence, this is the combination of the view above, that the good or evil of an act lies in it’s outcome (consequentialism), and the view that view that whether an outcome is good or bad depends upon some formulation or variant of whether it makes the viewer or recipient of the action happier, or causes them pain, or reduces their pain, etc. (hedonism). This hedonistic consequentialism involves a closely-related individualism, at least in the United States, which states that no person can judge another person’s pleasure or pain, such that there is no objective standard for pleasure or pain (a utilitarian calculus, as it has been called).

This plays out in interesting and potentially frightening ways. I take as my example two instances in the academic world this past year. One at Indiana University-Purdue University Indianapolis, the other more recently at Brandeis University. At IU-PUI, a janitor was reading a book on his lunch break entitled, ”Notre Dame vs. the Klan: How the Fighting Irish Defeated the Ku Klux Klan.” He was accused first of reading something like pornography at work, then the school itself accused him of racial insensitivity, based on an anonymous complaint. In a letter, a school official noted, “‘You used extremely poor judgment by insisting on openly reading the book related to a historically and racially abhorrent subject in the presence of your black co-workers.” The janitors pleas that the book was about defeating prejudice went unheard, and it wasn’t until the Wall Street Journal picked up the story that the school apologized. The second matter is still ongoing at Brandeis University, where a professor of fifty years used the term “wetback” in class to describe derogatory ways in which Mexican-Americans were treated. Someone complained, and Brandeis said that they believed the professor was guilty of racial harassment, and placed a monitor in his classes.

I think these two incidents illustrate the more visible results of hedonistic consequentialism, but I think this reasoning underlies many of the decisions made personally and governmentally in our world. Examples are not to difficult to come by (as I have illustrated above), and I think they would be easily reached by any person reading the daily news.

02 Oct 2008 Rainbow Cupcakes

It’s been an interactive week at the Watson house.  After being inspired by Kelly’s Blog, and knowing that I needed to make snack for 10 hungry soccer players for this weekend, I decided to give Rainbow Cupcakes a shot.  Knowing that 4 and almost 6 year olds, namely Claire and Michael, and maybe even an almost 3 year old Jacob would find this project totally exciting, Erika and the tribe came over to help.

Here is the recipe, sans frosting of course.  I did double it so we would have enough batter for everyone and it made just under 4 dozen cupcakes. The batter filled the bowl on my Kitchen Aid Stand Mixer up to the tippy top and was very very thick - which made it perfect for filling the different colors.

The colors we started with….I probably should have used more food coloring for a brighter result, but these turned out just fine.

The kids filling the cupcakes — we dropped a spoon full at a time in each cup with a different color


Before they hit the oven!

From October November December

The finished product

From the inside

They matched the twin rainbows at soccer practice yesterday too!

02 Oct 2008 Your Name
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Taken from Ali

That is super funny…I wanna doo it:

1. YOUR ROCK STAR NAME (first pet, current car): Spot Grand Caravan

2. YOUR GANGSTA NAME (fave ice cream flavor, favorite type of shoe): Cookie Dough Crocs

3. YOUR NATIVE AMERICAN NAME (favorite color, favorite animal): Navy Sloth

4. YOUR SOAP OPERA NAME (middle name, city where you were born): Margaret South Bend

5. YOUR STAR WARS NAME (the first three letters of your last name, first two of your first name): Annwa

6. SUPERHERO NAME (2nd favorite color, favorite drink): Purple Diet Coke

7. NASCAR NAME (the first names of your grandfathers): Frederick Stephen

8. STRIPPER NAME ( the name of your favorite perfume/cologne/scent, favorite candy): Happy Butterscotch

9. TV WEATHER ANCHOR NAME (your fifth grade teacher’s last name, a major city that starts with the same letter): Jurgonski Jacksonille (ha!)

10. SPY NAME (your favorite season/holiday, flower): Winter Tulip

11. CARTOON NAME (favorite fruit, article of clothing you’re wearing right now): Pear Yoga Pants

12. HIPPIE NAME (What you ate for breakfast, your favorite tree): Yogurt Dogwood

26 Sep 2008 Our new blog look
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What do you think?

18 Sep 2008 Our Family Portrait
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As rendered by Claire, Age 3 years, 364 days.

19 Aug 2008 Fun with Photoshop
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www.lidlesseye.com anyone?
www.lidlesseye.com anyone?

14 Aug 2008 On Teenage Spirituality
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So, I finished the aforementioned book. Much of what was important expounds on the theme I mentioned - “moralistic therapeutic deism.” One of the interesting themes the author mentioned constantly was that, while teenagers seemed quite religious in many ways, they were not the “rebellious spirital seekers” that many seemed to characterize them as - rather, they absorbed their parents’ religions quite readily. The parents, creatures of the “60s” and “70s,” often expounded a tolerant, easy-going approach to religion, which transferred to the children. The author often found the teens without an ability to state their religious beliefs easily, and were nervous when questioned more in depth, due to lack of knowledge. In addition, the author noted that many teens who were members of certain Christian (or otherwise) religious sects (such as Methodist) often held beliefs that would be schismatic / heretical to that sect as it was founded, but also were not aware of that fact.

One of the more interesting sections of the book came at the end, where the discussion focused on how youth group leaders, etc., could get the youth interested. The author recommeded challenging the youth on their belief - pushing them to learn more and seek out the reasons for their faith, and learn to enunciate them. (Interestingly, at about this time, I also happened upon an article laying out differences between an oral society, such as the early Greeks, and the written societies that came after - the written could sustain an extended argument and analysis. The article also argued that we may be reversing that trend in some ways.)

-j.

06 Aug 2008 Mah Djucie!
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No, that’s not Swahili.  That’s Madeline speak.

Other than her beloved Giraffe, Gigi,  and her sister, the only other thing Madeline adores in this world with all her heart is “juice”.  Juice can come in many forms, but it’s usually just a sippy cup filled with water, except at mealtimes where she has watered down apple juice or milk.  She asks for “Mah Djucie” all day, and drinks all day.  Yeah it’s a habit we’ve let her get into, but I suppose there are worse things in the world than being hydrated.  She still eats like a 10 year old (most days anyway), and is healthy and growing, so it’s not hindering her at all.

Anyway, sometimes this constant demand can get REALLY annoying, especially when there are no sippy cups clean or the dishwasher is running. :)

Monday night we went to dinner out at a local pizza buffet. (yeah, I know, not exactly South Beach approved, but it was convenient and cheap.  I was sort of good.)  The kids eat free at this place with the purchase of a drink.  Jonathan went and grabbed a booth with the girls, and I went to get them a plate of food each and a drink.  Every once in a blue moon, we let Claire have some Sprite when we’re out to dinner.  So I poured a glass of Sprite for her.  The best choice left for Madeline was an orange soda.  I CRAVED orange soda and Dr. Pepper when I was pregnant with her, so I figured she would like it.  I gave her about 1/4 of a glass.

jucie

Needless to say, Madeline was in love with the orange soda.  So much so that she was not eating her dinner, which is unusual for our little human garbage disposal.  I decided that she needed to eat more, so I took her “juice” (under much protest…she was yelling “Mah Djucie” at the top of her lung) and replaced it with some water.  I should have gotten her water in the first place, but I didn’t see that it was available from the soda machine until my second trip.

Her enthusiasm faded considerably after her first sip.  It went a little like this:

M:  Mah Djucie! Mah Djucie!  May Djucie!  Tank you Mommy!

Pause.  Drink.

M:  Oh.  Waduh.

She puts the drink down, and starts eating.  Jonathan and I burst into uncontrolable laughter.  Madeline looked at us like we were insane.

02 Aug 2008 The last two weeks in pictures
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Instead of writing an incredibly boring narrative trying to explain where the heck we’ve been in the last 2 weeks, I thought I’d share it via photos.

Madeline has a BIG drink. (don’t worry friends, it’s water)
car

Amanda rocked the house as Gabriella Montez in High School Musical
Amanda as Gabriella
“Mommy, I’m doing my ‘nastics’ in here.  Is this too dangerous for Madeline?”
Nastics
(well at least she asked)

Cookie visits!  We have a great time, with the exception of the worst concert ever (at least the people sitting in front of us were nice).  He taught Claire how to ride a bike and we only had a teensy bit of medical drama (everyone is fine!)

hootie
riding a bike
riding a bike 2

I also finished 2 knitting project which I can’t post here until a reader receives them. :)

We’re back with a vengeance now! :)

30 Jul 2008 our unintentional hiatus
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…yeah folks, sorry about that. :)  Look for a post in a few days to update on all we’ve been doing!

22 Jul 2008 Good Deed for Today: Cell Phone Recycling

How many of us have old cell phones lying around in drawers?  Yeah, probably everyone.  Just looking quickly this morning, I found two and could probably dig up one or two more if I tried hard.

I was reading in my Women’s Health Magazine this morning about an organization that takes donations of old cell phones, rehabs them, and then gives them to womens shelters for survivors of domestic violence.  And postage is free - they send you a prepaid shipping envelope or box.  What a great way to recycle your old cell phones and help out.

16 Jul 2008 My new favorite picture of Claire
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Enjoy!

fav claire

15 Jul 2008 My Friends
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…are doing great with their 40 day Challenges.

And I’m sucking it up.

Sorry girls.

12 Jul 2008 Happy Blogoversary to us!
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1 year into our blog deserves a haiku I think

The Watson Highlands

Is One Year Old Today, WOO HOO!

Let’s now start year 2!

Yeah, I know that was lame.  But I felt like I should say something to commerate this day.

26 Jun 2008 South Beach — Day 4
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Thank goodness for sugar free fudgesickles and sugar free gum.  And cashews.  MMM.

So last night I made us “South Beach Pizza” which consisted of butterflying 2 chicken breasts, pouding them somewhat thin (I could have done it more), browinging it and then topping it with pizza sauce, cheese and mushrooms and sausage and baking for 8 minutes at 425.  It turned out pretty good.

Tonight we’re going Indian…Channa.  My favorite Indian dish.  Chick peas cooked in a tomato/onion sauce with yummy spices.

All in all, I think we’re both doing really well with this!